Life of a working mom:
Leave from work around 5 pm, pick up the kids and get home, get the dinner ready, feed everybody, clean up, homework for kids, get next days things ready, read to kids, play/talk to them and when they are sleeping, login to work for few more hours. Sleep for few hrs(not a good sleep as baby needs to eat in the night also). Get up in the morning, get ready, get the kids ready , make the breakfast, have the kids eat, load them in the car , drop them to school and then reach the work by 9ish.
A guy in my office, who goes home by 7ish pm watch some TV, has dinner, helps the wife with kids and chores (may be an hours?) and sleeps for 9-10 hrs, gets up, goes to gym and reach office by 9.
How do I match the energy of this guy at work? and this "guy" is not just a guy, it can be any single girl or a girl without kids.
Does it mean that Girls should not be allowed to work once they become mom? I wish, I would have cribbed about not being able to work but at least my life wouldn't be running by the hands of clock and having the guilt of not being a good mom or not a good enough employee?
I don't know whats right or wrong?
4 comments:
यही तो है तनी हुई रस्सी पर चलना, और इसी खूबसूरती का नाम ज़िंदगी है. सोचो मत, ज़िंदगी जैसी है उसे भरपूर जियो. बस!
Papa ji, I want to agree but I can not.
It is more like "jeevan kee is aapa dhapi mein kab waqt mila kuch der kanhi per baith kabhi yea soch saku jo kiya,kaha, mana, usme kya bhala bura"
I think the life you lead was more beautiful as that was simple and less complicated.
The life we(new generation) is leading it's more like a blind race, where people are just running with no destination either in sight or in mind.
I fully agree with you when you say that the pace of life has changed drastically, and not only this, it has become more complicated. But still, I believe that we can find some moments for ourselves, so that we donot regret saying, Jeevan Kee Aapadhaapee mein...
i understand charu ji..... tabhi to zindgi ka sabase mushkil aur sabase katheen rore hai yeh aurat ka.... liked your views.... v practical....
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